[SUBMISSION] Scared To Be Ghosted Again

Dear Aunt Available, Late 2020 i came to know this guy and start to have feelings for him. Things are okay (pointing in the right direction I suppose) and we’re still getting to know each other. As time goes by, i feel my insecurities coming back when i thought i had healed. 3 years ago, … Read more[SUBMISSION] Scared To Be Ghosted Again

[SUBMISSION] Not Doing Well In School And Harming Myself

So at my age, people are either starting a full time career or graduating or starting uni, whereas for me I haven’t even got a diploma, I’m not good in my studies, just borderline enough to grad and get certs type of student. The fact that I have not gotten a place in poly due … Read more[SUBMISSION] Not Doing Well In School And Harming Myself

[SUBMISSION] Job FulFilment In The Time Of Coronavirus

Here’s my piece: I’m not doing too badly, I have a job with a decent pay. However, the job is not utilising my potential or skills that I have. I can only take on more projects to be able to utilise my skills. Should I feel frustrated that my job is as such? Or just … Read more[SUBMISSION] Job FulFilment In The Time Of Coronavirus

[SUBMISSION] What Should I Do When I Feel Left Out?

I have this group of very good friends. I love them a lot and I enjoy being with them. But the problem with our friend group dynamic is that my friends are too focused on one person and I feel left out. It always seems like I have to force myself to fit in their … Read more[SUBMISSION] What Should I Do When I Feel Left Out?

[SUBMISSION] Where Are You, The Girl Of My Dreams?

Hello Auntie My expectations at my age: Happily married to the girl of my dreams, discovered the meaning to life & found peace with myself. My reality: Constantly facing disappointments on dating apps, discovering that life is full of contradictions & struggling with my inner demons >:) <— That is my attempt at a demon … Read more[SUBMISSION] Where Are You, The Girl Of My Dreams?

[SUBMISSION] Setting Boundaries Between Work and Personal Life

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Dear Aunt Available, I have recently made the transition from working full time to doing self-employed work. I am in a better place financially and professionally but there are days when I feel overwhelmed both physically and mentally. Much of this stems from last minute changes, sudden proposals and surprise projects. My schedule has started … Read more[SUBMISSION] Setting Boundaries Between Work and Personal Life

[SUBMISSION] Getting Out Of The Unmotivated Rut

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Dear Aunt Available, I feel kinda stuck in life. There doesn’t seem to be progress, be it professional, financial or personal aspects. I want to get out of this rut and do something meaningful, but at the same time I feel so tired and unmotivated 🙁 any advice? Rolling Potato Dear Rolling Potato, Uncannily, this … Read more[SUBMISSION] Getting Out Of The Unmotivated Rut

Why It’s Important To Talk About It

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The phone alarm went off at 6.30am, but Jason was already up half an hour before that, tossing and turning in bed in hopes that he could sneak in a few more minutes of snoozing. He dragged his feet to the bathroom with a stubborn dull thought of how his work day would be—replying a … Read moreWhy It’s Important To Talk About It