I am 29 Male. All my life I have been searching for meaning and purpose of my existence. I witnessed peers who went to school with me are at a comfortable position in life, be it in a good career, having their own family, whereas I am still looking for something that I am good … Read more[SUBMISSION] What Is My Life Purpose?
Dear Aunt Available, Late 2020 i came to know this guy and start to have feelings for him. Things are okay (pointing in the right direction I suppose) and we’re still getting to know each other. As time goes by, i feel my insecurities coming back when i thought i had healed. 3 years ago, … Read more[SUBMISSION] Scared To Be Ghosted Again
So at my age, people are either starting a full time career or graduating or starting uni, whereas for me I haven’t even got a diploma, I’m not good in my studies, just borderline enough to grad and get certs type of student. The fact that I have not gotten a place in poly due … Read more[SUBMISSION] Not Doing Well In School And Harming Myself
Here’s my piece: I’m not doing too badly, I have a job with a decent pay. However, the job is not utilising my potential or skills that I have. I can only take on more projects to be able to utilise my skills. Should I feel frustrated that my job is as such? Or just … Read more[SUBMISSION] Job FulFilment In The Time Of Coronavirus
I have this group of very good friends. I love them a lot and I enjoy being with them. But the problem with our friend group dynamic is that my friends are too focused on one person and I feel left out. It always seems like I have to force myself to fit in their … Read more[SUBMISSION] What Should I Do When I Feel Left Out?
Hello Auntie My expectations at my age: Happily married to the girl of my dreams, discovered the meaning to life & found peace with myself. My reality: Constantly facing disappointments on dating apps, discovering that life is full of contradictions & struggling with my inner demons >:) <— That is my attempt at a demon … Read more[SUBMISSION] Where Are You, The Girl Of My Dreams?
Dear Aunt Available, I have recently made the transition from working full time to doing self-employed work. I am in a better place financially and professionally but there are days when I feel overwhelmed both physically and mentally. Much of this stems from last minute changes, sudden proposals and surprise projects. My schedule has started … Read more[SUBMISSION] Setting Boundaries Between Work and Personal Life
Dear Aunt Available, I feel kinda stuck in life. There doesn’t seem to be progress, be it professional, financial or personal aspects. I want to get out of this rut and do something meaningful, but at the same time I feel so tired and unmotivated 🙁 any advice? Rolling Potato Dear Rolling Potato, Uncannily, this … Read more[SUBMISSION] Getting Out Of The Unmotivated Rut
The phone alarm went off at 6.30am, but Jason was already up half an hour before that, tossing and turning in bed in hopes that he could sneak in a few more minutes of snoozing. He dragged his feet to the bathroom with a stubborn dull thought of how his work day would be—replying a … Read moreWhy It’s Important To Talk About It
Hey you, It’s Aunt Available, the aunt agony you never know you needed! Times are exceptionally hard these days, and I know everyone has our stash of problems to deal with every day. Some days are heavier than the other, and I hope you have someone to share with on those heavy days. If you … Read moreYour Aunt Agony Is Ready To See You Now